So I’ve begun doing sexology research so that I may better understand the things men do and why they do it. I’ve come to the conclusion that maybe it’s not their fault. I always used to think that women got the short end of the straw when it came to well…everything. But know I feel a little bit different. I feel as though the male race is trapped in a battle with mother nature that they can never win. They are bound to their inherent drive to reproduce, forever. Even men of 60 years and older need to masturbate, a lot of them furiously to sate themselves. It’s like an addiction that they can’t shake. As a male, one is biologically obligated to spread their seed, sometimes by any means necessary. And should a willing female not be available, they have no choice but to think about the opposite sex, in any sick, disgusting way they choose, to find an instant of release followed by shame. It must be so sad to be pretty much slaves.

With all of this said, men are low creatures. Horrible, filthy slobs whose lives revolve around that one act. On top of this, society has evolved into a war on the senses, and they are losing. The availability of visual stimulation is overwhelming, and not one of them has the will power to overcome it. Even men of the cloth, sworn to celibacy ( a display of their blind allegiance to a god they have and will never meet) can’t resist. And so they slink into their bedrooms to find that 7 minutes of privacy to feed the need. I wanted to know exactly what a Fleshlight is so I searched for videos online. It was…upsetting. Not the fact that they were doing it, but because they needed to. Its basically a gross imitation of a vagina. An artificial whole to stick themselves into because there are women out there that know better than to touch them. There were men holding these ugly things in their sweaty fists, pumping away at themselves as if it felt like the real thing. One man had set up a fuck machine but instead of a dildo on the end there was a Fleshlight. And he just sat there, camera aimed at his unkempt crotch, black, faded T-shirt still on, legs spread wide, with this ugly thing sliding all over his sex. And what am I 90% sure he was thinking about? A real, flesh and blood woman. One who actually likes him for some reason, who wanted him inside her because she at least thought he was attractive or funny or maybe even sweet. Disgusting. But then one might say, “What about women using dildos? It’s the same thing!”. I’m not sure this is true. Yes, maybe I’m just biased because I’m a woman. When women do it, it’s seen as sexy. Some do it because the thought of regretting sex with a man is too much to bear.

Sometimes I feel like maybe I should give them the benefit of the doubt, but then I realize that I’ve said to myself, “God fucking damnit I hate men so fucking much,” and really meant it, about 1,000 times.

This post was submitted by islovereal.

What part of “you not giving me enough time” is the part that guys don’t get!? Seriously guys are so stupid. I use to talk so much shit about females… but now that I’m dating a guy I realize why females are the way they are! And is cause GUYS are emotionally deaf! Like, instead of not saying anything and wait for him to guess what’s wrong with me I actually explain to him what bothers me without yelling, without a drama show… Matter of a fact he has never seen me cry… and what to I get in return the SAME FUCKING treatment! I like this guy so much that I’m starting to think I love him but really I know what I deserve and I love myself if he cant step it up then I’m moving on cause I’m not gonna settle for whatever he or anyone is gonna throw at me!

This post was submitted by Gjackson.

So I’ve always had this issue ever since I was a little girl with the inequalities amoungst women and men. Once I took Sociology in my freshman year of college, my hate for men increased by a longshot. The funny thing is, I have a boyfriend, and I love him very much. But after realizing all the little things he does that signify things beyond simple acts, we cant stop arguing and fighting about the littlest things because i am such a feminist. First off, my problem is that men get to intiate and terminate sex. Thats complete bullshit. We cant have sex if his penis isnt erect, and we cant continue once he blows. Thats bullshit, thank god for my dildo. Second, women are so concerned about others for example their man. I can go to the store and buy something for myself but ill call my man to ask if he needs anything. Would he do that for me? Hell no. If its not food for me to cook for him, hes not interested and thats so unfair. I give so much of myself out of kindess and dont get half of that in return. Third, this double standard thing drives me fucking nuts. The fact that men who sleep with a whole bunch of women are praised, yet women who are just as premiscuous as those men are looked down upon. People always say “oh its because a key that opens a whole buncha locks is the master key, and a lock that opens to a bunch of keys is a shitty lock” Well that may hold true for OBJECTS. Why does that have to apply to human beings? What the fuck is that? And another thing. Im not saying teen girls should be having sex, but why should a teen girl of appropriate age be looked down upon for acting on her urges to have sex and a teen boy is seen as freakin king of highschool? why do we encourage young boys sex is a good thing, and sex is dirty and a guilty thing for girls do to. Thats BULLSHIT.
Thats all for now, im already pissed. ♥

This post was submitted by pussyispower.

I have been married 5 months and unfortunately we are in to separate states for a reason too long to get in to. I was helping my husband submit a resume; he gave me his yahoo password. While I was on, I hear a ding and I see a chat. The chat was from SLAVE SLAVE and it was addressed to “master”! I figured it may just be an unsolicited chat. I get them all of the time from a Bambi or Candy whatever. So I ignore it, and go on with what I was doing. Then a week later I am on again submitting yet another resume and another ding from a different girl. Well I know the hubs is sleeping and so I decided to find out if she knows him. I chatted back and she began to flirt. She said she found his name on a dating site and did he want to see her on a webcam. So I blew her off and closed the chat inside yahoo. Then I opened the real messenger her name and Slave Slave was in the contact list. Her name and 37 others listed under “girlfriends and my name well it was under girlfriends too. I was so mad! I went to saved conversations and there were a few not to bad chats a few months old.
So I tested him and said um Honey an IM came up and she wanted to talk who is this Shella? Oh he said I don’t know and it must be a random IM. So I thought I needed to know if there was anything more going on. Also he had just sent back a phone I gave him on my plan, said the service didn’t work well at his home. It did not really bother me but now I wondered if it was to hide text numbers.
So I start sneaking on and checking e-mails and chats. It took a week or so but then he IMd her “DO YOU WANNA PLAY” A day or two went by and then she back that she was available and tried to get him to web cam. He said no but said that real life was better. So know I am pissed. Also around the same time I found two e-mails from girls stating that they were both from a dating site. I looked and looked for 3 days trying to find if he was on the site. I could not find him. Then another chat asking him how long he had been on the site and he answer that “he had just signed up”! Now I was so sick, I knew I had to confront him but I couldn’t. Saying it out loud made it real. Finally on last chat what was said was just too much! I tried to call and yell at him but I couldn’t. I was so hurt so angry; I threw up and couldn’t stop shaking.
I shot him and angry text telling him my ring it was coming back to him. He said what did I do and I told him. I was crushed. I told him how hurt I was but he brushed it off. He told me that he just got mail from the dating sites and he was not on them. I told him I HAVE THE CHATS and E-mails I copied them. Also that in his own words he stated that he was on dating sites. He just kept lying and I was so tired. He had class and I told him we would talk after… When we talked, he said ok what do you want? I said it is simple no more girls and no more dating sites. He said fine and we said good night. If he had apologized and tried atone it would have been behind us. I believe in second chances but oh NO!
The next say he was rude and surly. I asked why was he acting this way and that I should be the one that is mad. He told me he was mad because I gave him an ultimatum and that I was causing the issues. If he had not done anything wrong then how would it be an Ultimatum? I mean how would any woman feel if her just husband was chatting with girls and asking them if they “want to play?” His contact list was up to 44 women listed as “GIRLFRIENDS”(so he has added some). REALLY? Um most married people would have a HUGE issue with that.
So I for some reason just had to find his profile and I did. Large as life a suggestive nickname resent pictures, his real name in the bio and it stated that he was divorced! He had changed his height, he is very tall and that is why did not find him. There was a timestamp of when he was on and one picture was less than 2 weeks old. I copied and pated the chats, the e-mails and the dating profile and sent it to him. Still no apology, he said he just wanted to look around a full week of denying it. Faced with the proof all he can say is he had to fill it out to be able to look around. Well I had to fill a small portion out to try and find him. I never had to use my real name and I did not add personal photos. Does he really think I am this stupid? Of course he does and so he has a self fulfilling prophecy… he will be divorced!
Even hurt and mad it takes a bit to fall out of love and I know he thinks he has gotten away it. I am sure he has new girls to chat up. Oh but revenge is sweet I have not told him yet. I simply act the part of a DUMB forgiving wife. Mean while I have a new e-mail and soon a new phone number. Without a word the phone numbers will change and the old e-mail removed. Facebook will have my maiden name back up. Not to mention being an attractive woman, I found my own playmate! So Ultimatum that HUBS!!!

This post was submitted by KC.

Ok. I have made a mistake. I allowed the exbf a second chance, after weeks of ignoring his calls and texts. Somehow, he translated “Hey FUCKTARD, I dont want you, you humiliated me in front of an entire crowd of strangers” to “Oh yes, I love it when you verbally abuse me for not wanting to come clean your house, fuck your brains out, and put up with your pissy attitude when I wont take your unasked for advice”

I am really fed up with the constant put downs, being told I expect TOO much from my 18 yr old when I kicked his ass out for refusing to curb his social life, getting FOUR F’s, and talking back to me. I am very close to giving him a serious dose of foot to ass therapy if he gets nose to nose with me again, and accuses me of cheating because I dont want to have sex with a complete moron. The guy owns his own business, its over 5 years old, but he is broke due to his addiction to buying fixing, and attempting to sell gas hogs in a shitty economy, yet he wants to tell me that he thinks Im using him….for what? Oh yes he thinks its for his old ass modular home with paper thin walls, poor plumbing, a shot heat pump, unmanicured yard, and his old ass boat that gets stuck in reverse, oh yes and lets not forget that everything he owns is outdated to the point of being either low functioning, or just another object in his “museum”. WHATEVER.

Yep, Im ranting. I SHOULD rant. Im going to let his sons, who by the way avoid him like the plague, point this out to him. It will be a pleasure to know that his little hat is going to blow off when he realises that I have exposed his dirty little secrets.

Oh yes. Let me not forget to inform the readers….this isnt revenge, this is bitterbitch spittin the truth. Let the light shine on it.

This post was submitted by bitterbitch.

okay, so I was talking to this guy for awhile. We we became friends and then eventually more then that. People started saying shit cause are age diff. so we broke up but continued talking. So at first like the first 3 weeks or 4, we seen eachother everyday. it was always the cute morning texts and shyt. but yano how guys are, they dont keep it like that for to long. he started chillen with different girls everyday. then telling me “i promise we will chill soon” like no fuk that! you make time for me or were done. yano? im either your first priority or not one at all. then you go hangout with dumb broads nd you NEVER text me anymore or NEVER call me. Guess aint good enough anymore? hm maybe time to move on. what do you think?

This post was submitted by areyouserious.

Just sitting here awake in bed because my boyfriend decided to ditch me to go to a bar with his friend and HIS girlfriend who we were suppose to go out on a double date with. “bye babe, ill keep in touch.” NO TEXT until after midnight and of course it just says hi. WTF are you drunk? Even though you said you wouldnt be drinking. How can you not think that this isnt okay? ALL MEN ARE THE SAME! and I am getting pretty sick and tired of it.

This post was submitted by Munchkin526.

I am a 23 year old British woman and I think the whole notion of this blog is outrageous.
Imagine this blog was entitled “I hate blacks.” “I hate Hindus.” “I hate homosexuals.” Worst of all, “I hate women.” It would be all over the BBC, all over world-wide protests, and banned from the internet. But no. It’s about those with a protruding genitalia. So it’s ok.
Why you all think it’s acceptable to blame the shortcomings of a person on their sexual organs I have absolutely no idea. Why you think it’s ok to pidgeonhole and stereotype a certain type if human being i also cannot fathom. If this was about women you would be in uproar. But no. It’s about men. So that’s fine.
Some men are horrible people. But that’s down to their personalities, their upbringings, their experiences, their personal cultures. Not what’s inside their underpants.
I have a great many men, relatives, friends, colleagues, lovers, in my life. Some are great artists; some are great mathematicians. Some are atheists; some are theists. Some are idiots; some are not. None of this is down to their penis. It’s down to their soul.
So judge a book by it’s chapters, not by its’ chest hair. Do not ever assume your ignorance is morally acceptable.
Additionally, why is it that most of the users of this blog appear to have experienced only the dark side of men? Maybe instead of the biased, Nazi title “I hate men,” this blog should be entitled, “I am a weak and silly person who falls for every thing she is told and ends up looking like a fool.”

This post was submitted by discriminationaffectsmentoo.

What is it with these guys whose ex girlfriends are still in love with them even though they broke up, yet they maintain a “friendship” with the girl while in a relationship with someone new?? I’m in a relationship with someone. This is the 2nd guy in less than a year who I’ve dated who is maintaining a friendship with his crazy obsessed ex. It makes me sick and I don’t think I can stay with this guy, even though I love him. She meddles. She seeks attention. I hate it.

This post was submitted by phunkychikk.

In the small hilly Indian state of Meghalaya, a matrilineal system operates with property names and wealth passing from mother to daughter rather than father to son – but some men are campaigning for change.

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I am sitting across a table from Keith Pariat, President of Syngkhong-Rympei-Thymmai, Meghalaya’s very own men’s rights movement.

He is quick to assure me that he and his colleagues “do not want to bring women down,” as he puts it. “We just want to bring the men up to where the women are.”

Article continues.. http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/magazine-
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When I read this, it was one of ‘those’ moments. A moment where the roles are reversed and as a woman I can say .. now you know how it feels.

This post was submitted by shazz.

i met u on a dating site, we started talking and were getting along real well. but since u have split from ur wife! we kissed and now ur avoiding me like the plaque! we had an awesome connection and u freaked out and now u wont talk to me like u used to!!! thanks alot!!! u hurt me….and hurt me bad…i bald over you all nite last week..how dare u do that to me..u are so selfish…

This post was submitted by lori92.

Since the beginning of time, women have suffered at the hands of men and have forever struggled to understand just what has been the fuel to the fire of men’s barbaric nature. It has puzzled, tormented, and agonized us so much that over a million years later, in 2012 we still cannot comprehend men and have thus created support groups venting our perpetual hatred.

But today, sitting in my bed thinking about the very irksome thought of what it might be like to be a man, it finally hit me. The answer to the most important question. To the exact question you are wondering in your head right now. The answer to: Why do men hit women? Why do men treat women like shit? Why don’t men ever act with decency, or care about anything other than sex and their dicks, which they carry around nobly like a crown? I never thought the truth would be so simple…but it is.

Deep down inside, men are afraid of women.

It a fear so grand, so absolute, and so empowering that it causes men to behave in the most ridiculous ways without even knowing why. Men are afraid of us. Now I know what you’re thinking, how can men be afraid of us? They’re strong, powerful, intimidating, what could there possibly be to fear?

Men fear women because to them we are “the unknown”. They can’t understand us because they we are on a higher level than they are, and they realize this. It is in fact jealousy that sparks the hatred of men, when we take a moment to think about it

Why is it that men have to work rigorously to become strong and rich, in order to be powerful, when for a woman to be considered powerful all she has to do is be intelligence and capable?

Why is it that men reject their emotions, and cannot see the deeper meaning in things, while women experience love, passion, and are wise beyond their years?

Why is it that men cannot shake their necessity to have sex, and fulfill their carnal desires, while women have self control and aren’t driven by sex like animals?

Why is it that men only know how to solve conflict through war and bloodshed, while women work together to communicate and find solutions?

Men have many things to be jealous and envious of women. Females are naturally beautiful, gifted, skilled and talented in many ways, are gentle and caring, and are in most cases great mothers, sisters, daughter, and wives. All things that men know we can use to our advantage. We have so many more tools and abilities than men, it’s a shame we often do not realize it. We let men boss us around, tell us what to do or say, what to believe, what roles we have in society, and what “inferior beings” we are to them, when the truth is quite the contrary.

Men abuse, hit, oppress, mistreat, and dehumanize women to keep them from realizing the true power and greatness they have. They use physical force and verbal threats to “keep us in our place” and to assure that they never lose power, making our world belong to them.

The fear and hatred of women is men’s main weapon to instill fear in us so that we do not realize that it is them who should be fearing us. Women have been the backbone to society for ages and have silently done all the work diligently while men have sat atop thrones, yelling madly to the world and stroking their egos like fools.

Any injustice or mistreatment a man does to you is a stem of that exact fear. They prefer to keep us diminished, oppressed, and ultimately brainwashed so that they can use and misuse us for their own selfish needs. It is the culture and brotherhood of men to spread this mentality and behavior to other males, so all men, young or old, will grow up to exhibit all these qualities. And it is all a result of fear.

NOW YOU KNOW!

The world we live in is a man’s world. Not because they rule it, but because we let them.

This post was submitted by ReluctantOrange.